Open your eyes and open your ears

Choose wisdom above your fleshly desire's.
It saddens me to see and hear the distress of many married people who I have come into contact with. To hear of continual abuse they encounter under the guise of religion thinking its what the Lord wants them to go through.
The bottom line is, We have no special rights with each other before the Lord to abuse each other. Selfishness and self centeredness is the seed for destruction. Women or men who have been fractured through abuse before they were married and marry someone who is self centered are the launching pad for the selfish heart to abuse wether it be by verbal or by physical. I myself coming from such a background realize how very important it is that as Christians we love as Christ loves the church each other. We have to choose to change, no use praying about it, get serious make the choice and choose Christ above all. Ask the Lord to teach you how to Love and be persistant and be consistant and faithful. If you stumble get up and start again do not lie down and be a defeatest.
Do not think you do not have will power thats a lie from the enemy... you do.. if you and your feet can take you into places you should not be...think about it. Dont blame the devil.. you choose to go there no one else made you. You choose to follow Christ Jesus... you choose to change for the glory of the Lord.
You choose to love over hatred, you choose to be loving over selfishness you choose to forgive over hatred...speak the word of God loud so your ears hear it and your mind does not wonder in Jesus name.
be blessed .